What’s For Fun?

“What do you like to do for fun?” I got asked that classic question today. Have I ever told you I hate that question? I go blank and just…   *crickets*   It’s always special. I finally realized today what my big fat problem is...

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Happy Birthday, Mom!

Today is my sweet mama’s birthday. We’re separated by thousands of miles. I wish I could see her. But, since I can’t, I just wanted to take a chance to say how much I love her. How grateful I am for her. She taught me how to cook, and passed ...

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I Am A Midwife!

Today, I was told that I am not a midwife. That I, licensed practitioner that I am, have ripped that title away from those who are, by choice or circumstance, themselves unlicensed. “You are not a midwife.” I was told that the sweaty brows I wipe, or the h...

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Do You Know What You Have?

I’ve made a major decision…I’m done. Forget my soapboxes. I’m tired of the drama, politics, and never making headway. You want an epidural? I’ll ask for it for you. A c-section? No problem! I’ll find the doc with the 75% sec...

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How Do I Love Thee…

We have just passed the Day of Love, commonly known as Valentine’s Day. It used to make me feel like a relationship loser – all these people celebrating their successful “pair bonding”, while the single people swirl around in looking-fo...

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Can I Help You? Please?

Please, let me make a difference. Reward my hard work with a listening ear. See my passion for what it is – genuine care for you and your baby. I’m not crazy, or fanatical. I just believe in a way to give birth that veers from society’s norm,...

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Dream With Me!

Today a friend posted this on his facebook status – In a phone conversation with a friend of mine this morning we were discussing a project and something he said caught my attention, “Dream with me about this!” I was encouraged by that statem...

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Hi! Are You The Midwife?

Before the week began, I thought doing a prenatal Tuesday evening wouldn’t be a problem at all. I was taking an extensive course that week to become certified as a lactation specialist, but when a new client called me, I immediately scheduled an appointm...

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I Had Fainted, Unless…

I Had Fainted, Unless…

There is a popular phrase in our culture that says, “I’ll believe it when I see it.” Our entire lives are based on the tangible, on trusting our selves, our instincts, and our sight. It’s a tiresome way to live, this utter dependence on...

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The Story Of A Midwife…

I am often asked how I “got into” midwifery. It’s such an unusual profession, off the beaten path, so ancient in it’s history. I think it might seem odd to some that someone my age is a midwife – I’ve been told before that I...

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